Online Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction & Trauma Therapy in Washington

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D.J. Burr | Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington

Hi, I’m D.J. Burr, LMHC,

a licensed therapist providing virtual therapy to Washington residents through my practice, ABLE Life Recovery, PLLC. I help adults heal from porn addiction, sex addiction, and trauma, along with the compulsive patterns that often live alongside them.

I'm a Black, LGBTQ+ affirming therapist with extensive experience serving Washington clients. Whether you're in Seattle-Tacoma, Spokane, or anywhere else in the state, virtual therapy makes high-quality care accessible without the drive, the waiting room, or the chance of running into someone you know.

As a person in long-term recovery myself, I bring something most therapists can't: lived experience alongside clinical expertise. I know what it costs to do this work, and I know it's worth it.

With over 16 years of clinical experience, I'm a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and trained in EMDR. I'm licensed in Washington (LH60237239) and provide virtual therapy to adults across the state.

What I Treat

Porn Addiction

Recovery from compulsive pornography use and the secrecy, shame, and relationship fallout that come with it. We address both the behavior and the trauma underneath it.

Sex Addiction & Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Recovery from compulsive sexual behavior and the patterns driving it. We work through shame, rebuild trust, and address the trauma underneath.

Trauma & PTSD

EMDR and trauma-informed therapy for adults dealing with the trauma underneath addiction, anxiety, and depression. This includes complex PTSD and betrayal trauma.

A Note on Private Pay

I don't take insurance, and I provide monthly superbills you can submit to your insurance for possible out-of-network reimbursement. Private pay means we have the privacy and the time to do this work without an insurance company dictating diagnosis, session length, or how long your treatment lasts. For sensitive issues like the ones I treat, that protection matters.

Ready to Reach Out

I'm currently accepting new Washington clients. New clients typically start with a 50-minute intake session to make sure we're a fit.

My Specialties

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Porn Addiction Therapy & Recovery

Private, judgment-free therapy to break free from compulsive porn use, move past shame, and rebuild trust and connection.

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Sex Addiction Therapy & Recovery

Specialized, compassionate therapy to help you heal from compulsive sexual behavior, move past shame, and build authentic intimacy.

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Trauma and PTSD Therapy

Healing the deep wounds of past trauma to restore emotional regulation, stability, and peace.

Ready to Take the Next Step Toward Healing?

Finding a therapist who truly understands porn addiction, sex addiction, and trauma can be a challenge, especially when you're looking for specialized care within your own state.

Through my secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth platform, I provide the same high-level, transformative care to residents across Washington that I have delivered for over a decade.

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You don't have to navigate this journey alone. Let's work together to break the cycles of the past and build a life of integrity and connection.

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