A licensed psychotherapist, sex and love addiction therapist, EMDR therapist and codependency counselor in Seattle
Licensed to support clients in Washington, Georgia, Florida, Virginia, South Carolina and Oregon

Hi and welcome to my virtual office!
I’m D.J. Burr. I work with individuals struggling with sex addiction, pornography addiction, and codependency.
I am a licensed mental health professional and certified clinical trauma professional with 13+ yrs experience. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) treatment. I have experience in community mental health and crisis intervention. I am a published author, speaker, and podcast host. I identify as a Black, gay cis-gender male.
Addiction is meant to make you feel less. It provides temporary numbing for lifelong pain. You feel trapped, depressed, angry, anxious, guilty, and afraid when you can't stop.
Recovering from compulsive behavior, though not easy, is possible and has been accomplished many times. But it does require a complete change in beliefs and attitude, along with how to deal with life and its problems. Getting out of your head and taking action is the next indicated step. Listen to your mind and body - it's time to stop treating yourself so badly. I can help you learn to help yourself. You can become your own best advocate.
In addition to individual counseling, I run online therapy groups:
Men’s Sexual Addiction Recovery - Now Accepting New Members -- Starts May 13 8am-10am PST / 11am-1PM EST. Request pre-group registration now.
I am licensed in Washington, Oregon, Virginia, Florida, South Carolina and Georgia. I do not accept insurance, but I do provide monthly superbills (an itemized statement).
Before scheduling please check my Rates page and my professional disclosure. Learn more about my experience and how I work with individuals on my video page. Check out my blog for more insight.
I’m D.J. Burr. I work with individuals struggling with sex addiction, pornography addiction, and codependency.
I am a licensed mental health professional and certified clinical trauma professional with 13+ yrs experience. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) treatment. I have experience in community mental health and crisis intervention. I am a published author, speaker, and podcast host. I identify as a Black, gay cis-gender male.
Addiction is meant to make you feel less. It provides temporary numbing for lifelong pain. You feel trapped, depressed, angry, anxious, guilty, and afraid when you can't stop.
Recovering from compulsive behavior, though not easy, is possible and has been accomplished many times. But it does require a complete change in beliefs and attitude, along with how to deal with life and its problems. Getting out of your head and taking action is the next indicated step. Listen to your mind and body - it's time to stop treating yourself so badly. I can help you learn to help yourself. You can become your own best advocate.
In addition to individual counseling, I run online therapy groups:
Men’s Sexual Addiction Recovery - Now Accepting New Members -- Starts May 13 8am-10am PST / 11am-1PM EST. Request pre-group registration now.
I am licensed in Washington, Oregon, Virginia, Florida, South Carolina and Georgia. I do not accept insurance, but I do provide monthly superbills (an itemized statement).
Before scheduling please check my Rates page and my professional disclosure. Learn more about my experience and how I work with individuals on my video page. Check out my blog for more insight.
Counseling specialties:
behavioral addictions sex addiction /pornography therapy EMDR anxiety and depression codependency counseling group therapy intimacy issues grief and loss love addiction therapy childhood trauma recovery internet/video gaming addiction compulsive spending and debting |
Together, I can help you:
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Recovery is possible. You can arrest the behaviors and learn to live life differently. I offer online individual and online group therapy for residents of Washington, Virginia, Florida, Oregon, South Carolina and Georgia.
Your ABLE Affirmation is: